Life is complex, and we like to plan because it gives us a sense of control. But life has a way of defying our plans, and that's probably for the best. There's just something unsatisfying about things unfolding exactly as expected. It's the surprises—both good and bad—that make life interesting.
Complexity theory says that in systems, like life, the most robust outcomes emerge from a balance of order and chaos. Too much order leads to stagnation; too much chaos leads to breakdown. The sweet spot is at the edge of chaos, where there's enough diversity to generate newness, but also enough consistency to create stability.
The ideal life likely lies somewhere between total control and complete randomness. Set a course, but be ready to adjust the sails. It's only in hindsight that the path becomes clear.
Some of the best things in life come from small decisions, chance encounters, and unexpected events. It's a reminder that while we can influence our path, we can't fully control or predict it.
Randomness is a fundamental part of the complex system that is your life. And it might be exactly what you need to find your way in it.